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Second babies

Lots of exciting news from my coffee group as families embark on their journey with baby number two. Three have had their new little angels and several more are expecting. It's a wonderful time.

Kids are amazing and being pregnant is such a wonderful time of anticipation. I loved being pregnant with Grace. Well that's not strictly true. It was hard. Juggling medications, horrendous pain that made it difficult to walk and of course an overlay of fear given my age and so called "complicating factors" which meant I needed to be closely monitored.

So would I do it again? Yes. And no. I don't know! ! I'm being honest here (and I know I can with you) I am simply conflicted by whether it's better be ruled by my heart or my head on these matters.

But there are somethings that I do know. Life is complete with Grace and Chad. I love working (most days!) . I love the life we live.

And you know what, you gotta focus on the joy you have and I got tonnes!

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